{"id":25718,"date":"2026-07-27T13:13:23","date_gmt":"2026-07-27T17:13:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nouveau.lesexologue.ca\/blog\/2026\/07\/27\/give-me-an-orgasm-and-ill-give-you-one-too\/"},"modified":"2026-07-27T13:13:23","modified_gmt":"2026-07-27T17:13:23","slug":"give-me-an-orgasm-and-ill-give-you-one-too","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nouveau.lesexologue.ca\/en\/blog\/2026\/07\/27\/give-me-an-orgasm-and-ill-give-you-one-too\/","title":{"rendered":"Give me an orgasm and I’ll give you one too"},"content":{"rendered":"

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A sexual relationship can be defined by several criteria to judge satisfaction. We can count our orgasms, the number of positions practiced, the duration, the frequency of sexual relations and so on. In fact, we often tend to want to quantitatively measure the quality of our sexual relationships.<\/b> We are looking for objective measures on which we can agree and understand each other.<\/div>\n
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This approach, on the other hand, is limiting and distorts the complexity of sexuality between two people. We can also evaluate the connection with our lover, the tone and the attitudes of each one. We can analyze the style of the sexual relationship and the emotions experienced. <\/div>\n
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  • How would you describe your sexual style with your partner? (Piggy, Lovers, Tender, Intense, Perverse, Hot, Give-and-Give, Giver-Recipient, Pornographic, Erotic, Sensual) <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n
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    • How do you manage to connect with each other?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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      • Do you have a typical scenario?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n
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        • What is a satisfying relationship for you? What are the criteria to be met? <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n
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          • What is your internal dialogue while you are having sex? (Don’t say nothing, it’s impossible to think about nothing for so long) <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n
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            • What is your partner thinking about while you’re having sex? Have you ever talked about it honestly? Are you afraid of answers? <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n
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              These are just a few questions that can be asked to change the discourse about sexual satisfaction. Move from a quantitative to a qualitative discourse. <\/div>\n
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