{"id":26041,"date":"2026-07-27T14:14:37","date_gmt":"2026-07-27T18:14:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nouveau.lesexologue.ca\/blog\/2026\/07\/27\/feminism-really-egalitarian\/"},"modified":"2026-07-27T14:14:37","modified_gmt":"2026-07-27T18:14:37","slug":"feminism-really-egalitarian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nouveau.lesexologue.ca\/en\/blog\/2026\/07\/27\/feminism-really-egalitarian\/","title":{"rendered":"Feminism: Really egalitarian?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\">Let&#8217;s think together<\/span><\/h2>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<h3>Careful<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Before being outraged by the title of this text, take the time to think about the proposals and arguments. Also be clear that this text is intended to be a reflection and not an opinion cast in stone and that there is no position taken. I am completely against all inequalities and women and men should have the same rights and opportunities.    <b>This text is not anti-feminism, nor masculinism. Let&#8217;s agree that feminism is not a movement for women and by women to dominate men. Nor is it an article about the defence of Lise Th\u00e9riault, Minister of the Status of Women.  <\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">This article is intended to reflect on the feminist movement in terms of the discourses, actions and different presentations of feminism without claiming to know the truth on the subject. To understand why people do not want or no longer want to identify as feminists. <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<h3>Reactions to Lise Th\u00e9rieault<\/h3>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<p>I rolled my eyes when I read that a woman minister of the status of women does not consider herself a feminist. I have read several texts by authors outraged by her statement who have quoted simplistic dictionary definitions of the word feminism: <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\">  &#8220;attitude of those who want women&#8217;s rights to be the same as those of men.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">I then took the time to reflect on what the minister had said and I think I possibly understand her point of view of being egalitarian rather than feminist.<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<p>At first glance, one might think that feminism is indeed the promotion of equality between men and women. However, when we take the time to read this very simplistic and reductive definition of feminism, we could lead us to believe that the definition of feminism   <b>implies that men have all the advantages and that women are the only ones to suffer disadvantages from their gender. However, both men and women suffer the consequences of double standards and do not benefit from certain opportunities granted to women.   <\/b>Feminism works <u>mainly<\/u> to remove the inequalities that women may experience in this definition. A definition that promotes equality would look something like this: <\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\">&#8220;attitude of those who want the rights and opportunities of women and men to be equal&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">The difference is minimal in syntax and vocabulary but sends a very different message. The term feminism, by its linguistic root, refers to women. Patriarchy is also often referred to as the source of feminist\/female difficulties, which refers to men. For many people, the term means that women are the victims and men are the problem.     <u>I can understand how the minister does not want to affiliate herself with this term and this movement, despite the fact that it is not necessarily what feminism is working to fight.<\/u><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: justify;\">Who helps men in their difficulties?<\/h3>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">Feminism, especially in its early days, was more <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lapresse.ca\/le-soleil\/opinions\/points-de-vue\/201602\/29\/01-4956036-feminisme-101-le-feminisme-pour-les-nulles-et-les-nuls.php\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">about the inequalities of women<\/a>. This was entirely justified at a time when inequalities were flagrant and enormous. Fortunately, there have been improvements since then, but there <b>is still work to be done on this front.<\/b>  <\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">However, by pushing the analysis further, have we not forgotten men also in these social and &#8220;general&#8221; changes that feminism has engendered? Men can also be <b>negatively<\/b> influenced by stereotypes and expectations of them. They may also be disadvantaged in certain circumstances where women are not. For example:   <\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<ul>\n<li>expressing their emotions that leads to mental health difficulties<\/li>\n<li>always need to be strong which leads you not to seek help<\/li>\n<li>Ridiculing and humiliating for so-called feminine interests<\/li>\n<li>fear or accusation of being perceived as a pedophile with children in typically female fields (e.g. daycare)<\/li>\n<li>Custody of the child more difficult in divorce proceedings compared to the mother<\/li>\n<li>Prison sentence harsher than women for the same crime<\/li>\n<li>Less paternity leave<\/li>\n<li>Greater difficulty in reporting physical and sexual violence by a woman<\/li>\n<li>Etc.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<hr>\n<p>Generally, organizations claiming to be feminists promote help for women to get out of and fight the inequalities they face on a daily basis. How many organizations typically help with the <u style=\"font-weight: bold;\">real difficulties<\/u> that men face? Not too long ago, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lapresse.ca\/la-tribune\/opinions\/201512\/06\/01-4928400-manque-de-services-injustice-au-masculin.php\">one of the only centres to help men who had experienced sexual assault was closed due to lack of funds.<\/a> It is clear that feminist organizations have their place in our society, but do they really promote equality between men and women or do they fight the inequalities that women suffer? Which, in my humble opinion, is not necessarily the same fight. It would require in-depth reflection to really draw a conclusion.      <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sophiesexologue.com\/2016\/03\/je-ne-suis-pas-etonnee-de-la.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">However, there are feminist organizations and movements that are actually working on both fronts.  <\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\">Changes in the Feminist Movement<\/h4>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<p>The feminist movement has had several different waves and philosophies over the years. There are still different perceptions about the meaning of feminism today. It is a social movement that is constantly changing. The term feminism leads us to believe that the movement is still for women and not for men because of its history and the word for the designated. This might have led the minister and many others not to identify with this philosophy and conviction.    <\/p>\n<hr>\n<p>Yes, but she is the Minister of the Status of WOMEN!!<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Indeed, it is supposed to promote the condition for women. This does not take away the right to consider men also in her work or in her personal vision of equality between men and women.   <b>It would perhaps be more relevant to understand where her perception of not identifying herself as a feminist, but as egalitarian comes from, rather than finding her remarks absolutely outrageous.  <\/b>I may be wrong in my interpretation of the minister, but listening to each other&#8217;s position has a much better chance of bringing about positive social change than going to war with others who do not have the same position or belief as us.<\/div>\n<div>\n<hr>\n<p>A feminist who asks questions!<\/p>\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/nouveau.lesexologue.ca\/en\/about\/\">Fran\u00e7ois Renaud M.A.<\/a><\/div>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/nouveau.lesexologue.ca\/en\/\">Sexologist<\/a> &#038; Psychotherapist Montreal<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let&#8217;s think together Careful Before being outraged by the title of this text, take the time to think about the proposals and arguments. 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