{"id":36,"date":"2015-03-14T21:58:00","date_gmt":"2015-03-14T20:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nouveau.lesexologue.ca\/blog\/2015\/03\/14\/different-types-of-sexual-desire-part-ii\/"},"modified":"2026-07-27T14:13:52","modified_gmt":"2026-07-27T18:13:52","slug":"different-types-of-sexual-desire-part-ii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nouveau.lesexologue.ca\/en\/blog\/2015\/03\/14\/different-types-of-sexual-desire-part-ii\/","title":{"rendered":"Different Types of Sexual Desire Part II"},"content":{"rendered":"

The complexity of the romantic relationship and the influence on sexual desire*<\/b><\/u><\/h2>\n
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For a long time, humans have been trying to understand the mystery of sexuality and more specifically what creates sexual desire in both men and women. There have been many debates, experiments, research, theories and hypotheses on the subject. To this day, there is still no consensus because the process of sexual desire is indeed complex, variable, individual and also relational. <\/div>\n
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The relational aspect is probably the variable that creates the most volatility of sexual desire in humans. She has the ability to create strongly felt sexual desire just as she can instantly destroy it. The relational aspect is the reason that most often leads couples to consult sexologists in therapy<\/a><\/b> for difficulty in sexual desire, both in women and men. It is also one of the most difficult disorders to treat, but not impossible. Decreased desire in one or both partners is recurrent and normal<\/a> in long-term couples. On the other hand, despite the normality of the thing, it does not simplify the work and the efforts necessary to find it or rather transform it. Moreover, unlike the physiological and emotional category of sexual desire,<\/a> it follows a certain linear evolution. In addition, it is often related to one or more other types of sexual desire found in the other two categories. Let’s start by explaining more about the different types of sexual desire in the relationship category first. <\/div>\n
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Sexual desire related to the relationship<\/b><\/h3>\n
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Passion phase:<\/u><\/h4>\n
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The beginnings of a relationship are often surrounded by a certain euphoria, passion, novelty that instantly creates in people a sexual desire called passion.<\/u> This stage of the relationship is generally experienced at the level of sexuality where both partners feel desired, desirable and desire the other in return. The slightest stimulation or thought from the other person arouses sexual arousal and a desire for physical closeness. It is a desire based mainly on the exploration of the other that ignites for many their adventurous and creative side of their sexuality. <\/div>\n
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Phase of the feeling of love:<\/u><\/h4>\n
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The second phase can arrive quite quickly where romantic feelings are felt and emotional elements come into play. This sexual desire is characterized by the presence of love<\/u> between two people. We start to get to know the person with whom we share an intimacy more and admiration takes more place in the dynamics of the couple. This admiration is the energy that motivates and arouses the sexual desire of partners. The impulse towards the other is often more affectionate with a mixture of sexual and sensual elements. The desire can be motivated by the desire to start a family or to get closer emotionally. At this stage, we often find a desire that is fusional with the other. Create the feeling of being unique in the eyes of your partner through sexuality and especially during penetration (vaginal, anal or oral). This phase can last 1 to 3 years, but rarely more. <\/div>\n

 
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